Spring break rules! (April 24)
Last week was Lucas’s school’s spring break. Since we’ve been admiring the snow-capped Olympic mountains all winter – or at least on those awesome days when the clouds lift – we figured we’d head out to the peninsula to gawk at them from even closer range. So we rented a cottage in Sequim, and last Monday took the ferry to Bainbridge and drove west.
Sequim is not a major tourist destination (and the “e” is silent, for those of you not from these parts). But it is conveniently located right on the water and not too far from Hurricane Ridge, one of the most stunning and jagged sections of the Olympics. And we had heard about a few accessible hikes near there, so we decided to give it a try.
It turned out to be all we had hoped for – paved trails in beautiful places – and then some. We hiked to an impressive waterfall just inside the Olympic National Park. There was the Elwha River, which Lucas will tell you about, starting with the bald eagle that flew right over our head. We saw deer and hiked along the bluffs over the ocean (wheel chair, suction machine, vent and all), and then found a welcoming raw-milk dairy with some newborn calves for Lucas to pet and feed.
It’s hard to describe exactly what made this trip so great. Lucas was in a good mood. We didn’t have to drive far, so we all weren’t exhausted from the trip. We’ve gotten better at describing what we need. For example, we don’t need ADA-accessible lodging (because a lot of those standards are for spaciousness and handlebars in bathrooms, which do not apply to a diaper-wearer). With a push wheelchair we can even navigate up a couple shallow stairs, which we’re willing to do if it gets us a more spacious room. Krista managed to describe all this to the cottage owners over the phone, and they understood enough to reserve the right space for us.
But maybe the sweetest moments were when things worked out that we hadn’t even planned on. We took Lucas to a paved and accessible path over a beautiful old railroad bridge, and we happened to arrive just as Sequim’s regular birding crew assembled for their weekly walk. Since Lucas loves bird identification, we asked if we could tag along for a bit. They were so welcoming that they insisted on getting both of us pairs of binoculars, and then proceeded to show us the merganser, the downy woodpecker, and the common thrush. Quite a few of the birders went out of their way to try to get to know Lucas, not just pointing out birds but also asking him questions. Lucas is still quiet around strangers, so it takes a lot of patience to get many words out of him. But birders seem to be naturally patient people, and they did not want us to jump in and answer questions for him. One woman, who had been observing our suctioning routine, even suggested “maybe he needs a mouth suction” when he was slow to answer her question. Wow!
Possibly this spring break trip was so sweet because we’ve had other, more challenging experiences — new people uncomfortable with Lucas, or driving out of our way for something we were told is “easy” to get a wheelchair through, only to find a steep path with major rocks, roots, and uneven stairs. In fact, this spring break was so smooth that there was space for us to get a bit of cabin fever mid-way through the trip and start bickering . But hey, what’s family vacation without parents arguing about directions (or something stupid like that)? In the end we stayed an extra night, stopping on the return trip for Lucas and Krista to connect with their Viking heritage in Poulsbo, and then had a joyous ferry trip back into Seattle, happy to have made it through Lucas’s first spring break adventure!
Oh, and here are some pictures…
Comments (2)
Meredith
April 30th, 2013 at 2:42 pm
Just getting caught up here, and wow, you guys. I can’t believe how much Lucas has grown just since we last saw him! The photos are beautiful, and I’m glad you all had such a great trip together. And whoa: Reading! Numbers! Lobbying! :) (And the thumb-sucking-sleeping picture just melts me.) Zevi’s going to be extremely impressed. We’re looking forward to seeing you soon!
Julie Graves, Albany CA
April 25th, 2013 at 9:15 pm
What an awesome trip! You guys are (all 3 of you) intrepid voyagers: so glad you had the reward of great weather and excellent people to share the landscape with.
It would have been great to know, a year or so ago, that Lucas would not only be in school, but going on school break vacations, to Olympic Nat’l Park no less! There will be more unexpected fun possibilities ahead, and you no doubt will find them :-)
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