Feeling Grateful (Nov. 21)
After almost exactly four days at Children’s Hospital, Lucas is home. Ten minutes after our arrival we went back outside to get some bags from the car and there was a perfect rainbow in the sky to the north. A good omen indeed.
Right now we’re somewhat astounded by our good fortune. Given all that Lucas went through on Saturday and Sunday, and where things stood yesterday morning, it’s downright miraculous that we got discharged today. Lucas started smiling the second we rolled up his wheelchair and went to pick him up from the hospital bed, and he pretty much kept smiling the entire ride home.
As Burke was driving last night to pick up Lucas’s gear he heard a show on the local NPR station featuring the “interfaith three amigos.” They were talking about the concept of gratitude and this is what the Rabbi had to say:
“Most of the time ‘thank you’ is almost perfunctory, and sometimes heartfelt, but it is a response to something that happens in the moment. Gratitude is a bigger category that represents the expression of an open heart, where we become grateful not only for a particular event but for being present at a particular time, for being with the people we are with, and being able to perceive the beauty and the goodness in our world.”
So for now we won’t go down the list and thank all the people who’ve done amazing things and sent love for Lucas and for us over the last four days. What’s most important is that Lucas is alive, and smiling, and asking for books, and dancing in our arms to “Mister Rabbit”, and lighting up the world with beauty and goodness in the way that he’s been know to do. Indeed, we are feeling grateful.
Comments (9)
Negar Adib
November 29th, 2012 at 4:54 am
Wonderful news. I hope Lucas continues to smile, dance and ask for more books with each passing day.
Jocelyn
November 22nd, 2012 at 7:38 pm
Hooray, hooray, hooray! I couldn’t be happier for all of you. Give Lucas lots of extra loves and hugs from us too, please. Happy, happy thanksgiving, my friends.
cora
November 22nd, 2012 at 3:23 pm
Happy Thanksgiving from the Hague, you guys! Congratulations! I can feel the love, relief and freedom in your post. I hope you get some sleep and recovery time.
Max Toth
November 22nd, 2012 at 10:06 am
So glad to hear you’re all home! Thank you for posting updates for your many adoring fans. Many many hugs from us; hope you have a lovely Dia del Pavo.
jody foster/john ryan
November 22nd, 2012 at 9:43 am
“THANK YOU” for sharing your journey and your thought/emotions/love with all of us.
Great news that you are all happy at home. beso y abrazo
James Ploeser
November 22nd, 2012 at 7:58 am
So happy to hear of the discharge. Sending love and lots of hugs (plus a raised fist) from DC/WI.
Grateful for this development and the many other good fortunes. Isn’t it great how sometimes when life tries us, we get such powerful signs that we’ll be taken care of, that things will be ok? Rainbows and NPR reports are all around, especially when we perversere.
Hugs and Happy T(of)urkey Day to all!
Mary G
November 21st, 2012 at 11:05 pm
Wonderful! That’s awesome Thanksgiving news – enough to make anyone feel grateful! Hugs! :)
Erin White
November 21st, 2012 at 5:43 pm
I am so apply to hear this. Happy Thanksgiving!
Judi Beck
November 21st, 2012 at 3:49 pm
What fabulous news. There couldn’t possibly be a better Thanksgiving Day present! Hugs to all of you from all of us.
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