It’s a big world… (Dec. 3)
Lucas keeps growing, which makes us very happy (heck, that’s what healthy babies do: eat, poop, grow… repeat.) Yesterday we were back at the hospital for an appointment with the gastrointestinal specialist and Lucas tipped the scales at 9 pounds 1 ounce! Still, he remains a tiny little dude – even as he steadily grows of late Lucas has only recently surpassed the average birth weight for a newborn despite the fact that he’s now 3 1/2 months old.
The business of growing is actually pretty tough when you’re saddled with the kind of challenges that Lucas is faced with. Because of his breathing difficulties he burns up a lot of calories just taking in breaths (remember that his ventilator only provides pressure support and that he spends four or five hours a day off the vent.) We try to strike a balance between stimulating Lucas to move around and observe the world – which he needs to do in order to overcome his brain injury – and giving him plenty of rest in a relaxed environment. As the gastrointestinal specialist told us, “he’s got enough going on!”, which is to say that we want to make eating, feeding and growing as easy as possible for Lucas so that he can concentrate on overcoming his other challenges.
Speaking of size, the other day his physical therapist observed how small the various parts of Lucas’s body are… except his ears! Lucas took no offense and in fact we take pride in his disproportionately large extremities, not just ears but also fingers and toes. On the whole his body remains extremely long and at least one of our friends thinks that he may end up being the tallest man in the world. We checked his proportions after the doctor’s visit yesterday and found his weight to be in the 15th percentile for a low birth weight baby (based on his adjusted age of 1.5 months) and his length to be in the 100th percentile.
Here’s a song about being a little baby in a big world. We play it a lot for Lucas since it’s good to be reminded that you’ll only be little for a little while. Thanks to Evan and Aaron for introducing us to this beautiful music (the duo is called “Renee and Jeremy”).
[audio:bigworld.mp3]And since November has come to a close here’s a slide show of some favorite Lucas shots from the last month…
Comments (7)
Julie G.B.
December 21st, 2009 at 11:07 pm
Thanks for sharing so many great pictures! I’m just getting caught up, but he’s so big!! I still owe Lucas a present, so I’ll give it to Sha tomorrow to pass on before I keep forgetting. :)
I love that song by Renee and Jeremy! I was introduced to them by a Pandora mix I created to listen to at work when I’m feeling stressed. If you haven’t heard it, Free is one of my favorites.
Hope you all are well. Look forward to seeing you soon. :)
Alice Rich Lewis
December 7th, 2009 at 12:48 pm
What a strong, beautiful family you guys are! So glad you’re home. Burke, I really liked your letter to the Post, rock on.
Sending love from NYC,
Alice and August
Jocelyn
December 5th, 2009 at 4:07 pm
Dang, he’s beautiful!!! Thanks for the pictures!
Evan B.
December 4th, 2009 at 8:13 pm
Nice pictures! Lucas- you are so precious.
For some reason, I’ve been thinking a lot lately about all the babies in the world who aren’t loved and treasured and cared for- which, needless to say, really gets me down. To feel better, I remind myself of all of the kids we know who are totally loved and treasured and cared for- and Lucas is certainly up there at the top of the list. You two are incredible parents and it seriously makes me so happy to know that he is in such good hands.
So glad Lucas is enjoying his Renee and Jeremy CD! It continues to be a favorite of Earl’s.
ashley
December 4th, 2009 at 3:45 pm
Oh Lucas- you are looking cuter by the day!!! I love all of your polka-dots! And nice job on the weight gain! As for the ears, sorry to inform you that they are a Stansbury trait. Your papa sports them as does your daddy and your Tia Ash. Be proud!
Lots of love. We look forward to visiting you in January.
xo
A,B,M,T & E
Tara Melinkovich
December 4th, 2009 at 3:44 pm
Oh I am so glad to hear you are all settling into life at home! I love the story of the walk around the block. Gotta love all those supplies! Joaquin’s feeding pump came in a child size camouflage backpack…awesome!
Lucas is such a fighter and only going to get stronger as he settles into life at home with such wonderful parents.
Amanda
December 4th, 2009 at 1:55 am
We can relate to the weight gain concern. To hopefully make you feel better, our girls were 14 pounds at one year old when we first met them at the orphanage. They were soooooo small. They weren’t even in the 0 percentage. I love pictures of your little man and can’t wait to meet him.
mandy, cort, and family
Leave a reply