Gettting fussy, working the binky, and sporting cut-offs (Nov. 8)

Friday came and went without the equipment arriving, meaning that Lucas’s homecoming will not happen on Monday.  We appreciate all your messages expressing frustration and solidarity (though Lucas has been a little disappointed at the number of public comments on his blog lately), and we’re confident that things will move forward this next week.  In the meantime, we’re having a little gathering this afternoon to celebrate Lucas getting released from the hospital.  Once he’s home we’re going to have to be careful about having a lot of people over – because of germs during flu season – so we figured we’d throw a housewarming/welcome Lucas party before he actually arrives.  We’re trying to see if we can get a live video feed from room 638 at Children’s.IMG_2901

And what about the little guy?  In all the hubbub about health insurance and medical equipment we haven’t gotten around to writing about Lucas himself for a number of days.  Well, we’re happy to report that he’s doing great, as ready as ever to leave the hospital.  He had a couple little bouts with vomiting yesterday but in general continues to hold down his food and gain weight.  He’s also been spending more time off the vent, and yesterday one of the respiratory therapists who has a lot of confidence in Lucas made the executive decision to leave him on the trach collar for about 5 hours (though it was only supposed to be 1-2).  He did fine, breathing steadily throughout and not building up many secretions in his trach, which happened the previous time he was off the vent for an extended period.

Perhaps best was his performance on Friday while we were running around talking on the phone to case managers, insurance representatives, doctors, and medical rental companies.  In the midst of it all, Lucas got very fussy – turning red-faced with an elevated heart rate – and was awake for nearly 6 hours straight, by far the longest such stretch ever.  Obviously he was pissed off about the health insurance situation like the rest of us, but what was interesting is that during that time he kept demanding his pacifier, and in fact it was the only thing that would keep him from throwing a fit.  We were a little worried for a while but then realized that he was just acting like a typical 2 1/2 month old baby.  That being said, we never thought we’d be so excited to see him suck a pacifier (the name of the device is problematic enough – no righteous baby deserves to be pacified!) but seeing him work so long and steady on the “binky” was a real pleasure.long_legs

In other news, Lucas is already growing out of hand-me-down outfits that he hardly ever got to wear.  The real problem areas are his amazingly long limbs, especially his legs, which force us to turn pants into shorts.  We cut the feet off of the sweet alligator onesie that his aunt picked up for him at the newborn second-hand store, and he proceeded to sport the outfit for a couple days straight without puking on it!

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Comments (8)

Tara Melinkovich

November 9th, 2009 at 12:49 pm    

Good job Lucas!! So proud of you! Working with that binky is SUCH a good sign! Our speech therapist told us it would help w/ the puking too (Joaquin was the master of projectile vomiting, which is ever weirder to see, when you’re giving them food through a tummy tube and not ever their mouth). Anyway we were told the more they can get that sucking action down, the better they will be a keeping food where it belongs, in their tummy. I guess its all about gravity, sucking lead to swallowing, which creates a constant downward movement, making it harder for food to come back up. I also remember feeling like I never knew I’d be so excited to see my kid get pissed, but its such a good sign for cognitive development! You go get pissed Lucas!!!!

Hang in there you two. You are amazing parents!

Max

November 9th, 2009 at 11:38 am    

Hey Lucas! I know it’s a long wait, but man, there’s this awesome big fuzzy sheep with your name on it that I got to meet yesterday, and hanging out with it (and your mom and dad, and all your friends) will be worth the time.

Krista & Burke, here’s rooting for the equipment to come through soon. Y’all are fierce, and your place is so darn cozy.

Big hugs,
-Max

Brook, Sheeva, and Ellie

November 8th, 2009 at 9:49 pm    

Hey Lucas!

Ellie wanted to be sure and say she loved your halloween costumes! We have photos of Ellie as a hot tamale and as a pumpkin – the same ones!

I’m sorry I haven’t replied more on the blog, but be assured we think about you often and are sending nothing but our love and support.

Hope you make it home soon! Say hi to your parents from us!

Brook, Sheeva, and Ellie

Margo

November 8th, 2009 at 7:54 pm    

Ugh, frustrated! Soon though is great news and I can’t wait to hear the news of the homecoming. Great idea to have a party ahead of time. Lucas looks great by the way. He’s changed so much!

sammie and dan

November 8th, 2009 at 5:47 pm    

Sorry we can’t make it today but sent a little something for Lucas with Simon and Paola. Rooting for you guys to triumph sooner rather than later over the evil health care system. Not sure if the bill passed last night will make things better or not but it makes a good start.

Mary G

November 8th, 2009 at 11:55 am    

Go, Lucas! Bust through those footies! Pretty soon you and your parents will bust through all the crazy red tape keeping you in the hospital, too!

Courtney, Sean and Ian

November 8th, 2009 at 11:30 am    

Happy to see that you’re doing so well and so sorry about all the frustrations! Try not to be too disappointed in the delayed NICU departure. We had loads of false starts in getting Ian out (including one day where the doctors signed off on it only to find out that his discharged had to be delayed another 24 hours to follow proper protocol…) Keep up the great work on growing and you will be home thriving soon!

Tio Sha

November 8th, 2009 at 10:44 am    

Lucas, I just woke up from a dream about you being at home, being a squirmy active little one drooling on people’s shirts as we held you and making gurgly sounds. Keep up your spirits, keep fussing when you need to, and busting through the footsies of your baby clothes. You’re almost home, baby! Your mom and dad are doing everything possible to get you home, and before you know it we’ll live on the same block and get to play together.
Burke & Krista: you guys warm my heart like always with your ability to be strategic and inquisitive and take action and at the same time remember your own personal struggle in the context of the broader struggles for justice. I really want to come by today to celebrate but I am still battling this cold, so not sure it’s a good idea… :( maybe i could come at the beginning and just hang outside for a bit without breathing in your faces?

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