A good day (August 29)
Lucas woke up feeling better today, and he was pretty energetic when we arrived at the NICU this morning. His arms and legs were moving a lot more than we’ve seen before, he had his eyes open for a long stretch, and he even made some squinching facial expressions to show that he wasn’t happy with adjustments to his ventilator tube. He got to hang out on both Burke and Krista’s chest for an hour each, and all the while he continues to do well processing the small quantities of breast milk going down his nose tube. It’s nice to see progress, if only just a little. Day by day, poco a poco, baby steps… that’s what we keep telling him.
He had more visitors over the last couple days: Max and Jess (who brought exciting finger puppets), Sha (with some new reading material), Ilana and Buddy (with a CISPES paycheck for Burke!), Becca and Becca (with more finger puppets), and Simon (who took us to see a movie after the visit, a nice break from reality.) Meanwhile, Lucas got to check out all the wonderful, creative cards that his 4-year old cousin Madden has been sending him. He was a little surprised to see the one that said “Lucas loves Madden” given that they’ve yet to actually meet, but he took her word for it.
Early next week we’ll sit down with all the doctors and specialists looking after Lucas and try to get a big picture of what’s going on and what lies ahead, knowing that they probably still won’t have a diagnosis. The latest genetic tests for Prader-Willi syndrome came up negative, so they’ve pretty much exhausted the possibility of chromosomal disorders.
Tonight we’re back at the hospital after watching the movie “Taking Woodstock”, and it’s nice to spend Saturday night with Lucas, play him some Sweet Honey and the Rock on the stereo, and tell him stories of hippies sliding in the mud.
Lucas takes down 3 milliliters of milk for lunch
Comments (5)
Laura McSpedon
August 30th, 2009 at 4:55 pm
So glad to hear about Lucas’ progress in the last few days. And glad to hear y’all got to escape to 1969 for a bit. I hope the baby steps continue and I’ll keep sending love and healing thoughts your way.
laura
Julie Graves, Albany CA
August 30th, 2009 at 2:51 pm
Burke and Krista,
Reading your good news gave my heart a lift! Moving his arms and legs, small but definite improvements…that’s the way up and out and homeward bound. Maybe this passage will just be a mystery you can all look back on and scratch your heads over: doctors don’t know everything (I can say this with authority as I am one). And, it is a good thing to leave the Prader-Willi question behind. Onward and upward, Lucas, at your own pace.
Julie Graves
tanya
August 30th, 2009 at 12:03 am
So glad Lucas had a good day! I hope they keep getting better. He’s such a sport! Maybe I can come see him next week and bring some munchies for you guys. Mike’s been making pesto lately…
Great Aunt Kit and Great Uncle J.D.
August 29th, 2009 at 10:44 pm
Each day, a little more progress… what more can we all wish for? Lucas, you’re always in our thoughts :) (and you, Burke and Krista, also).
XOXOXOXOXOXOXO
Tia Ash
August 29th, 2009 at 9:18 pm
Hi Lucas-
So happy to hear that you are enjoying Madden’s cards. Yes, she was a bit presumptuous in assuming your love for her, but she had a feeling that it was already there even though you haven’t met:)
We wanted to let you know that we did our special meditation for you last night. We couldn’t find a candle (classic), so we we (Madden and Tia) each said our thoughts about you and our visions of your life in later days. Madden said things like, “I hope you get stronger.” “I want to swing with you on the swing set.” “I want to buy you a toy and some candy.” “I hope to give you a hug soon.” “Can you come to my birthday party?” After we said our words to Lucas, we closed our eyes, and wished them his way. Even though we know he spends much of his time sleeping, Madden and I decided he received our messages early this morning in his dreams.
We are thinking of you all…
xo Mads and Tia
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